Megita

  • Do You Hear What I Hear?

    Do You Hear What I Hear?

    What I hear is not always what my leader is hearing… or dancing to. Eeek! In my early tango years this drove me crazy. I would get frustrated and annoyed. Can’t they hear the music? Why aren’t they doing this or that? Then one day I had a little light-bulb moment. Maybe they can hear…

  • Going to My First Milonga

    Going to My First Milonga

    I had zero idea what to expect. How many people would be there? Would anyone talk to me? Was what I planned to wear okay? Was it far too early in my tango journey to have the cheek to go? Let’s be honest — I didn’t even know the different styles of tango music. And…

  • Tango Shoes and Clothes

    Tango Shoes and Clothes

    I was so excited to buy my first pair of tango shoes. I was out to lunch with a lovely crew of tango people. Yummy food, great conversation, the wine flowing… and I mentioned I needed proper tango shoes. Long story short — Margarita (Margaret Hill) had her Retro shop just around the corner from…

  • Learning About Myself Through Tango

    Learning About Myself Through Tango

    This one feels a little raw. What has been the most difficult part of my tango journey? For a while, I thought I was doing okay. I’ve never been a super confident person. I take things to heart. I worry if I think I’ve unknowingly let someone down. I was going to classes. I had…

  • Still Learning

    Still Learning

    Sometimes I think back to that first class. I remember walking into the room and feeling something unexpected — as though I had found my real home. At the beginning, I understood my teachers’ words in a literal way. I couldn’t repeat the concepts very well, though. I think I worried too much and needed…

  • Starting Tango. How I Stumbled Into It.

    Starting Tango. How I Stumbled Into It.

     I’d never really danced… well, except for some serious bopping to Doug Parkinson, Zoot, Town Criers, Russell Morris… you get the picture if you’re from my era 🤪  Could I actually dance? Heck no!  Life got in the way — no lessons as a kid, working from 15, single mum at 18, corporate life… and…